When the obsession to change ceases,
it is then change has happened.
You want the world to change,
be it yourself, the other, your job, and so forth.
This obsession for things to be different
arises from comparison and resistance.
The problem is not with the other, but with oneself.
Change is about changing oneself.
It takes discovering who you are and accepting that.
If there is love and peace within you,
the environment changes.